1st In a series where I will share directly from my own life journey where I am committed to using my life situations as learning experiences, alignment before action, and letting my life be guided completely by my intuitive wisdom.

In This Episode, I define what it looks like to live life based on these 3 priorities:

1) Learning from Life Situations

2) Alignment Before Action – acting from fear or love

3) Living Life from Inner Guidance

I Share the 3 areas of my life that I am growing the most in right now: Money, romantic relationships, and eating and how I am embracing the concept “Slow Down to Speed up.”

Embracing this philosophy has brought me to a slower pace than ever imagined and allowed me to really finally blow up some longstanding issues – like the final roots of my money fear, cycles of workaholism, even awareness of eating patterns I have dealt with all my life, and now has my standing on the brink of some pretty exciting shifts!

Here are the Real-Life Situations I have face the last 3 months and share about in this episode:

๐Ÿ”ต Death of my Father

๐Ÿ”ต What I decided to do with a growing Facebook group that didnโ€™t feel aligned anymore

๐Ÿ”ต. My Entrepreneur Journey and What unfolds next

๐Ÿ”ต. Being Empty Nester soon

๐Ÿ”ต. How I am making decisions about my house.

Key Lessons Insights I have had from the last 3 months of slowing down:

๐ŸŸฃ Living the Abundance Change me Prayer by Tosha Silver – being a conduit for abundance from Tosha Silver’s Book – Itโ€™s Not Your Money

๐ŸŸฃ Not making decisions based on money, fear, insecurity, or lack – takes holding strong in the face of uncertainty.

๐ŸŸฃ Being Comfortable with Uncertainty – Trusting that the path will be made clear and when itโ€™s time to act I will know exactly what to do.

๐ŸŸฃ I was acting with the emotional intelligence of a 13-year-old in some aspects of dating

๐ŸŸฃ Inconsistency in my life comes from A Core need for approval – yet when I was a child you got โ€œapprovalโ€ when you were behaving according to someone elseโ€™s ideal standard and hiding your true inner light – and extreme punishment/humiliation/pain if you acted according to who you really were and it was in opposition to the leaders. So in my life today I strive to always living authentically in alignment but at times the โ€œapprovalโ€ and excitement of others actually caused me to go back into hiding. – losing weight/ recognition for business/ So this Kept core wound kept me from living consistently and authentically all the time. ANSWER: Unconditional LOVE and Acceptance of Myself

๐ŸŸฃ. Stop Chasing and Allow – one way to do this is to begin making a decision based on Joy not analyzing how I will possibly feel about it in the future

Where I see I have grown:

๐ŸŸข. No longer judging myself

๐ŸŸข. Not calling anything a failure

๐ŸŸข. More Comfortable with the Uncomfortable

๐ŸŸข. Enjoying Life more even in the midst of uncertainty

๐ŸŸข. My Humor is surfacing

๐ŸŸข. Living more relaxed than at any point in time in my life

Key Resources I have used the last few months

๐ŸŸ  Intuitive Journaling

๐ŸŸ  Meditation/Mindfulness

๐ŸŸ . Awareness

๐ŸŸ  It’s Not My Money by Tosha Silver

๐ŸŸ . The Surrender Experiment by Michael Singer

๐ŸŸ . Eckhart Tolle – books/video resources

๐ŸŸ . EFT – Emotional Freedom Technique

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